Thursday, December 25, 2014

The Dark Matter Of Love

Masha is an eleven year old girl who grew up in an orphanage in Russia. Along with twin boys, Marcel and Vadim, she is adopted by the Diaz family. This 2012 documentary deals with the very first year of how not only these children, who've never known a family or how to be in one, adjust to a new life in a new family and a new country, but how the Diaz family relearns how to be a family with adopted children. It does not take them long to learn the reality of bonding and the attachment issues that come with children who've spent their lives in the orphanage system. This is a journey that is far more difficult and heartbreaking than they family had imagined. The Diaz family hired two of the leading developmental psychologists, including Professor Emeritus at the University of Virginia School of Medicine Dr. Robert Martin, to help them navigate these new struggles using scientific discoveries used in a world-renowned therapy program.

While this is not an easy film to watch, I highly recommend it for any family considering international adoption or for those families who have adopted. 

As Karyn Purvis has written, "Adoptive parents become the biological parents through connection. We change their biology."

For those who have Netflix, this film can currently be streamed. 

Here's the official link to the film:

Here's a trailer for the film:

Here's a link for support:


  1. I've followed your blog for a long time, and really enjoy it! Thanks for the movie recommendation - just finished watching and it was very good. Merry Christmas to you and your family!

    Jen in Canada

  2. Hubby got me the DVD for Christmas, and then I read your post on boxing day. Now I need to find the time to sit and watch it. Did you watch it alone or with Cava?

    1. We watched it without Cava. Not sure how he would have reacted to the film.